Thursday 2 October 2014

Kindness culture - human right and responsibility

 “Kindness and good nature unite men more effectually and with greater strength than any agreements whatsoever, since thereby the engagements of men's hearts become stronger than the bond and obligation of words.” 
 Thomas More, Utopia

Recently I read a blog titled, Maybe It’s Time To Stop Talking About Bullying, And Talk Kindness Instead by Lisa Currie (http://www.teachthought.com/culture/maybe-time-stop-talking-bullying-talk-kindness-instead/) and it struck a chord. As the ‘bully’ culture grows and more cowards take to social media to parade their ‘un-superhero’ capes, I wonder what can be done to curb this ever growing concern.

 

I love the idea of a culture of kindness. Social media, technology, connectedness is here to stay, so we have to embrace it and teach kids how to use it appropriately. Just like we have to teach respect and good manners, we need to teach them to be kind both on and off social media. Why not focus on kindness culture? There are projects like TAG you’re it and Acts of Random Kindness that promote this idea, but we should adopt and nurture this attitude so that it is not a one-off, but rather a way of life, integrated into our daily thoughts. What can I do to help someone else? Both big and small acts should be encouraged as we adopt a culture of embracing differences and celebrating them.

 

It is also suggested that people affected by mental health issues, particularly depression and anxiety, can actually feel better by helping others, by taking the focus off themselves and this rewarding experience can offer a healing process. Kindness is a medication.

 

I have become more active on Twitter of late and even become involved in some very encouraging topics regarding tolerance and stigma. The media plays a significant role in manipulating our emotions, and many people allow them to do just that. As educators, it is our role to teach students to think for themselves, not be swayed by media portrayal, fear mongering and rather challenge opinions. Unlike when I was at school and acquiring information was much more tedious exercise, we have information at our finger tips and have very little excuse to not be informed. This is empowering. Knowledge is powerful, but applying this knowledge is key.

 

We need to teach students how to acquire accurate knowledge and once they have this knowledge, what to do with it. One comment I saw on twitter also suggested that the word tolerance is actually more restrictive that liberating. I had never thought of that, it’s true. It is about celebrating differences. We all form part of different cultures and even within these cultures, we are not the same but we are equal. We are humans and with all our influencing environments, we are unique. Adopting a culture of kindness will ripple out into the community. Fostering kind relationships, responding kindly, reciprocating kindness and being kind when it isn’t easy are just a few ways we can shift behaviours. No, we won’t ever live Utopia, but we can aim to get as close as we can. The change starts with me. Let’s change the world, starting with kindness.

 


Thanks for reading. I would love to hear from you, Jacqui.

Sunday 28 September 2014

This is me

I majored in English and Psychology in South Africa and then did my Post Grad studies to become a teacher. I ventured to London where I did relief teaching (and met my hubby), and after surviving some pretty tough schools and experiences, my passion was not lost. Upon returning to South Africa, I secured my first ‘real’ teaching job as an English and Technology teacher. Sadly this ‘technology’ sounds far more exciting than reality. It was a subject forced upon students in grade 8 and 9 relating to wiring plugs, bridge design, 3-d drawings and so forth. With a budget of about $15 a year I somehow pulled it off, but this was not my passion and I was thrilled when the school scrapped it. I absolutely loved my grade 8-10 English classes and also taught Life Orientation to grade 11’s which involved discussing  issues such as relationships, healthy eating and personal well-being, physical well-being, citizenship education, career guidance, sexual education and the like. Both English and Life Orientation led to vibrant discussions, sharing ideas and opinions and making sense of information.
After four years at the school, we decided to make the move to Australia and since my brother was in Brisbane, we headed for Brisbane as well. I secured a contract for term 2 of 2009 at Grace Lutheran College while a teacher was on long service leave. I taught grade 9 English, grade 10 Christian Studies and Grade 11 and 12 Religion and Ethics. I returned to the relief teaching scene and even risked primary school. I take my hat off to primary school teachers! I learnt a lot. I was exhausted by the end of the day and I acquired a new respect for primary teachers, especially prep and year one teachers. At this point, I was privileged to get another contract as an ESL (English as a Second Language) teacher at The Gap State High School in Brisbane. I loved it! I worked with grade 10 – 12 students mostly from China. A few students were from South Korea and Japan too. These students left their families and came over to Australia to finish their schooling here. They often came over with very little English, attended an intensive ‘course’ of one to two terms before being placed into mainstream schools. My job was to help them build on their English and get through OP English. It was often a case of repeating what they had done in class, reading set books or poems with them, breaking down assignments, checking drafts etc. I also had a grade 10 English class and we explored Romeo and Juliet, short stories, poetry and music videos. Sadly, after 18 months at the Gap, I left. I was pregnant and hubby had just completed his post-grad studies to become a teacher. He was offered a job at Riverside and I was going on maternity leave. Although we were nervous, we were thrilled that he had a job and that his teaching career was about to begin.

After my year off with my baby girl in 2011, I have worked part-time. I worked in Distance Ed, did some teacher aiding, relief teaching and am now currently doing part-time work as a chaplain. I have enrolled in my Masters of Education: Guidance and Counselling. I am on the third of eight units. I am loving the knowledge I am acquiring as it can be used as a Guidance officer, but also in a classroom setting in understanding students better and meeting their needs in a changing world, daunting and sometimes empty world. On that note I leave you, as I ponder what to explore next J

Wednesday 24 September 2014

Teacher blogging journey begins...

Welcome to my first ever education blog. Twitter, my husband (Jacques) http://mrdhistoryteacher.blogspot.com.au/ and a few other sources have inspired me to blog about my thoughts and interactions with education and teaching.

Towards the end of 2010 my hubby was offered his very first teaching position at Riverside Christian College - http://www.riverside.qld.edu.au/. He just finished his post graduate studies and I was about to go off on maternity leave. He had no idea what the journey would hold. It meant a move from Brisbane to Maryborough with a two week old baby, it meant no friends, no internet access (it took a good 3 months before we had internet access at home) and a new job (for both of us - me as a mum, him as a dad and a beginning teacher). It was not easy to be faced with so many changes all at once, but as they say, 'challenge accepted!' 

2011 was a tough year for me emotionally. I never knew that a tiny little person could be so demanding, but it did allow me to watch my husband transform, from a chrysalis into a butterfly. What has been so noticeable is his passion for history and his love for e-learning and its importance in the educational setting. Watching his fire, his passion, his love has led me on my own journey, to re-evaluate my own teaching philosophy and to start thinking about my experiences as a teacher over the past decade or so. To those who have mentored him, challenged him and inspired him, I am grateful for your input in our lives. It has allowed me to learn as well and I feel inspired to look back over my experiences and start making sense of them and to be challenged to improve and shake things up a bit. 


I would love for you to journey with me. I have no idea where this is going, a mystery trip, that is all I can offer you right now. Join me on a journey of discovery, living up to the mantra 'lifelong learner.'